Preparing for Potty Training: My Top Ten Takeaways

Potty training—it’s a milestone I approached with both excitement and trepidation. With my kiddos, I’ve had my fair share of potty training adventures, each with its unique challenges and triumphs. Each child was a little different. After three rounds myself, these are my biggest takeaways for a seamless transition. 

1. Timing Is Everything

The first crucial step in potty training is choosing the right time. My rule of thumb has always been to look for signs of readiness rather than adhering to a strict age guideline. When my oldest showed an interest in using the toilet and staying dry for longer periods, I knew it was time to start. The key is to be patient and wait until your child is ready to embark on this new adventure.

2.  Set the Stage

Creating the right environment can make a significant difference. Begin by investing in a comfortable potty chair or a seat reducer for the regular toilet. Let your child pick one out if possible; it adds a sense of ownership. Additionally, stock up on training pants or underwear with fun designs that your child will love.

3. Introduce the Concept

Before diving into the actual training, introduce the concept of using the potty. Read books about potty training, watch videos, and talk about it casually to make it seem like a big-kid adventure. I found that using a favorite stuffed animal as an example helped demystify the process for my children.

4.  Go Commando

When you’re ready to begin training, let your child go commando during the day. This allows them to feel the sensation of being wet and associate it with the need to use the potty. Keep a close eye on their cues and encourage them to use the potty whenever they show signs of needing to go.

5. Create a Routine

Establishing a consistent routine is essential. Make trips to the potty a regular part of your child’s daily schedule, such as after meals or before bedtime. Consistency helps reinforce the habit and reduces accidents.

6. Celebrate Small Wins

Celebrate every success, no matter how small. Whether it’s the first time your child pees in the potty or stays dry for an entire day, positive reinforcement goes a long way. We used a sticker chart and a small reward system to motivate our children during this phase.

7. Be Prepared for Setbacks

Potty training isn’t always a linear process. There will be setbacks and accidents, and that’s perfectly normal. Stay patient and reassure your child that it’s okay. My second child, for instance, had a setback when our family moved to a new house. The key is to remain calm and supportive during these moments.

8. Transition to Nighttime Training

Once daytime training is going well, you can start nighttime training. Keep in mind that nighttime dryness may take longer to achieve. Be patient and consider using training pants or waterproof bedding to minimize messes.

9. Encourage Independence

As your child becomes more confident, encourage them to take ownership of the process. Teach them how to pull down their pants, wipe, and wash their hands. This independence boosts their self-esteem and prepares them for life beyond diapers.

10.  Keep Communication Open

Lastly, maintain open communication throughout the journey. Encourage your child to tell you when they need to go, and be sure to listen and respond. Creating a supportive and understanding environment fosters trust and confidence in your child.

After three kids, I can say that potty training is a unique journey for each child. What worked for one didn’t for another. My advice is this: stay adaptable, be patient, and most importantly, celebrate your child’s achievements, no matter how small. Potty training is a significant milestone, and with the right approach, you’ll navigate it successfully. In the end, the joy of watching your child become more independent and self-sufficient makes all the effort worthwhile. Happy potty training!